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Three Questions Every Family Should Answer Before a Medical Crisis

Medical emergencies don’t wait for the “right time.” They strike without warning, leaving families scrambling to make difficult decisions under immense stress. The best way to protect yourself and your loved ones is to be prepared before a crisis happens. At Sabrina Winters, Attorney at Law, PLLC, we help families in Charlotte and throughout North Carolina create peace of mind through proactive estate and healthcare planning.

In this post, we’ll walk you through the three essential questions every family must answer to ensure you’re protected during a medical crisis.

1. Who Speaks for You if You Can’t?

Imagine being in an accident or falling seriously ill—unable to communicate your wishes. Who would step in and make medical decisions for you?

If you don’t have a legally designated representative, the default decision-maker could be:

  • A spouse or adult child
  • A parent or sibling
  • A court-appointed guardian

But what if that person doesn’t know your preferences? What if there’s conflict among family members?

Appoint a Healthcare Power of Attorney (POA). This legal document allows you to name someone you trust to make medical decisions on your behalf when you are unable to do so.

2. What Do They Know About Your Wishes?

Naming a decision-maker isn’t enough. They also need to know what matters to you—your values, beliefs, and wishes for care.

Ask yourself:

  • Do you want life-prolonging measures?
  • Would you prefer comfort care over aggressive treatment?
  • Are there religious or cultural values that should be honored?

Create a Living Will (also called an Advance Directive). This outlines your specific instructions about the types of medical treatment you do or do not want if you’re incapacitated.

Tip: Have an open, honest conversation with your Healthcare POA and your family members. These discussions are just as important as the legal documents.

3. Do They Have Legal Authority to Act?

Even if someone knows your wishes, they cannot act on your behalf without legal authority. Hospitals and healthcare providers are legally bound to follow certain procedures and may be unable to consult anyone who is not properly designated.

Without the right legal documents, your loved ones could face:

  • Delays in care
  • Court involvement to appoint a guardian
  • Family conflict over who should decide

A Healthcare Power of Attorney and Living Will give your representative the legal authority to act swiftly, confidently, and in alignment with your wishes.

Why This Matters

A client once shared that her father was in a coma after a sudden stroke. Without documents in place, the hospital had to consult several family members—each with different opinions. The family struggled to make unified decisions, and ultimately, the courts got involved.

If a Healthcare POA had been in place, one trusted person could have spoken clearly on his behalf, saving time, stress, and emotional pain.

Planning = Peace of Mind

A medical crisis is not the time to figure out your family’s plan. Answering these three questions now can help ensure your loved ones aren’t left guessing—and that your voice is heard, even when you cannot speak.

At Sabrina Winters, Attorney at Law, PLLC, we help families in Charlotte and across North Carolina make thoughtful, legally sound decisions before emergencies happen. Whether you’re starting from scratch or updating existing documents, we’re here to guide you.

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